Sunday, January 9, 2011

Support time!

So recently I have found a group on Facebook that has already helped me so much just in the two days I have been a part of it. I don't know a whole lot about miscarriages or things that happen after, or how long certain things last! This group is an awesome informational place as well as a HUGE support! I don't feel stupid posting questions or just asking and needing emotional support from some people I have never met. The ladies there are awesome. The group is about TTC after, and just where to go when you feel down and can't seem to pick yourself back up. It's my little silver lining. My husband has been a great support but he will never know how a miscarriage physically takes toll or other emotions that I may be feeling and he is happy I found this group as well. It's one of those things where you know others have had the same experiences but you may just not know more than a few off hand, the site just really makes me not feel so alone and that's just what I've been feeling.

Things are getting better here. It's been a little over a week and we are still dealing with some emotions but God has been a great help and comfort. It also helps that He has given us so many helpful and wonderful friends here in VA. I am very thankful that my best friend that I lived with in SC also got orders to live here. There is just something about someone who has been through a lot with you that you have known in person for so long that is a huge comfort. As well as my newer friends too!

I have asked God many times to be with my heart, help it heal and help me not to be so emotional just when i see my other friends pregnancy belly pictures and He indeed is saving my soul once again. I don't understand how people go through life without God to guide and help them through. I hate to think of where I would be right now if i didn't have the ultimate support!

2 comments:

the princess said...

I am so glad that you have been finding support, it's always nice to realize that there are a lot of us who have been through the same thing. Keep your head up hon :)

The Kohlschmidt Family said...

this blog post made me cry!
Glad you found a group to help you and who can relate with what you are going through!!!